What IF…?

Posted by nona | family, Life... | Tuesday 29 July 2008

How would you feel if you’re only given a maximum of six months to live?

This is not a meme, a tag or a question of the week.

My sister-in-law was diagnosed with a stage 4 breast cancer. It was sudden, devastating, heartbreaking news for us. She’s the closest SIL to me among my six others. If you saw her you couldn’t tell that she’s suffering from a deadly disease. That’s what she herself and the rest of us thought so. Cancer really is a traitor. Sometimes, its symptoms would show at its peak stage. The same case with my mother, she wasn’t ill or bed-ridden all her life but then after she was diagnosed with a liver cancer her life had ended in two months time. How cruel isn’t it? But that was another story…seven years ago.

I had a long talked with my sister this morning. She told me about the latest info about SIL. The doctor said chemotherapy will extend her life for two years. Two years? Two years of prolong sufferings? And it has no guarantee they said, depending how her body would sustain and react with the therapy.

She’s like my own real sister. I love her more than my brother. My parents love her so dearly when they were still alive. Because she’s the best sister-in-law and daughter-in-law in our family.

I am a thousand miles away, besides some financial assistance; a prayer is the best thing I could offer for her right now. Only God could tell and could make changes…

Paalala lang: Huwag po nating isawalang bahala ang minor pains na nararamdaman natin. lalo na kung ito ay paulit ulit na.

Power of moving feet…

Posted by nona | Life... | Saturday 15 March 2008

It’s nice getting out of bed every morning and being thankful for another beautiful day…

Spring is here, after the last snow fall hits us three (3) weeks ago. The weather is still cold and foggy but the sun’s beginning to spread its shine.   

 

How I missed walking!…I mean, a good walk. I haven’t done it for the last five months since the winter had started.

 

I loved to walk rather than taking cabs if the weather is not too cold nor too hot. Walking can be fun, besides it’s my only form of exercise. I actually can see things when I walk…

such as the way a setting spring’s sun illuminates the trees

It allows me to study faces,

 

Hear voices and get a better understanding of people in their milieu…

  

 

and seeing beautiful sceneries around…

 

Life indeed is a great blessing.

Happy weekend everyone. :)